Actually, it's much better to keep that one guy that you can easily protect around all game and buy everything from him and send all your trade routes to him too, then build a ton of eco-trade boosting starbase on the way and you're set for life (Don't worry, he'll use that money to buy more tech from the other players, which you can then buy off of him for dirt cheap - I like to do this instead of whoring tech). Unless your galaxy is so small and planets are so few that a PQ 15 planet would change everything, it would be much better to just start killing other people first.