@Scoutdog: You, as the player, can gain either "Historic Friendship" if you maintain friendly relations with another race for I believe 5 game years (it could be 3, which I understand is a big difference, but its been a while so...)
If you declare war on another race, make peace, and come back and declare war again, eventually, your reputation/credibility will be so damaged that you will have "Historic Animosity"
The Torian and Iconians have this toward the Drengin and Yor respectively
Edit: As for modding: It can't be done. The Diplomatic relations (what causes the various + or -) are hardcoded. You can set their overall attitude, but thats it. Sorry.