Hi.
First of all, I really love this game. 
However, I think there is a very curious thing going on in TA. Everything is ok until the first ai declares war on me. I want to add the I'm the defender and the ai is the aggressor. A few turns later a second ai will call and tell me that I attacked the first ai and they will help them and will declare war on me. A few turns later a third ai will call me and tell me that they are worried that I'm a very terrible aggressor who wants to take out all races ... and ... yes, declaring war on me.
So there I am. Pieceful as the Dalai Lama but with the reputation of a war monger and a lot of wars going on. 
Is it possible that somehow the ai confuses declaration of wars?