I bought this game because it seemed like a really great game, plus there were a lot of good reviews. I didn't get much of a chance to play Gal Civ II but then I got Dark Avatar and I'm trying it out. After like my 10th attempt to figure out this game I have failed and have given up. I understand the mechanics of the game but I cannot figure out the strategy. I have tried not colonizing at the beginning and I have tried colonizing a lot at the beginning but it seems like all the time I am 10/10 on everything, even technology, which I prioritize (+20% abilities, +20% gov party), not to mention flat out broke.
The last game I played I was doing horrible on every category (nothing new) and I struggled to make money (again, nothing new), even with five colonies (on a map with few habitable planets) with populations above 6 billion (except for one), and with at least two adv. markets on each one (one of them was a class 14 with at least 7 markets and a pop of 12

. I was making maybe 30 bc a turn, including four trade routes. It seems like taxes mean nothing in this game. It was so difficult for me to get a positive cash flow, and then I finally got a positive cash flow after concentrating so hard on it, but then my economic might rating was only 34, and the top player was at least 160!
My initial setup was that I would build about 2-3 labs on each colony and have a big civ bonus, so I should have a relative advantage with technology. But I am significantly slower than the rest (and also am 10/10). This is what really upsets me. I can deal with the slow economy, lack of any military, but I should be dominating with research (this was idea). I did set the tech rate to very slow so the game was more about the military and economic aspects. Does setting the tech rate only affect you? I feel like that is what it does.
I have played what I would call a decent number of TBS games (Call To Power , Civ II, Alpha Centauri, Age of Wonders, etc) and they weren't this difficult at all. I just can't seem to make headway in anything and I'm only playing on normal. I cannot imagine playing the computer on extreme in this game. I read somewhere that the computer only gets 75% of their economy on normal, so I really feel like wtf with this game because I can usually at least hold my ground in turn based strategy. So I guess I'm asking for tips or advice or whatever since this seems to be my problem and mine alone. The game seems to have so much potential, and it looks fantastic, but I cannot get to the good aspects of the game and I am quite frankly very frustrated. I'd really hate to uninstall this game but I can't continue to play it like this.