It's only good if you are one of the veteran players that has played for at least 3 years (and coughed up 3 years of monthly fees) because the ships/items/skills are trained in REAL TIME. Some of the basic skills take months to train. You can't even come close to having any items/ships that will last more than 3 seconds against even 1 veteran ship, much less the 10-15 that gang you before you even see them ...
Not entirely true. Yes as a solo new player you don't really stand much of a chance, even against someone who's character is only a few months older then yours, but then again EVE Online isn't meant to be a single player game now is it? [*deleted link*]
Yes, I suppose you are right, it isn't meant for single-player.
I suppose after reflection, what I was trying to get at is, it really makes me uncomfortable to not-know who is really who and who is really doing what to whom. An example might be that, even in B.O.B. or GoonFleet, the very player you assume is your bosom-buddy during a "fleet-battle" could be, and often is, talking to and giving updates to the other side on a different channel (you did mention lag, or someone did) ... even while talking to you on another. I would also allow for the not-so-remote possibility that "your buddy" is actually flying one of the opposing ships(using one of his(or her) many different accounts on another pc/multitasking) and aiming to blow you away by surprise when you least expect it.
The same is true of many of the Corporations, and many Corporations are just false fronts to engage new players in mining or other basic activities in order to exploit their efforts by funneling the profits from several "slave corps" into the coffers of another, older, more well-established corp run by a bunch who have figured all this out even before a noob hears of the game.
I won't go into the details of the real-cash rip-off market that has been created, perhaps inadvertently, where ISK/accounts/items are sold on eBay (and by in-game solicitation of the ignorant), with the tendency to target noobs for this also, any more.
Sorry, I just don't think that's fun, and if that's what I wanted for a game environment, I'd play "back-stabbing bitches from hell with nothing better to do than screw their buddies and laugh at them" - or, I might get involved in real politics instead, but again, that's not what I do for fun.
As a more general response to the bulk of the posts here, I don't mean to try and dissuade anyone from trying it, and certainly not from enjoying it! If you're gonna get raped, you might as well! I wish everyone the best of luck, and have a good time!