Air superiority is having more aircraft with superior fire power in your airspace than you can defend against, either from the air or the ground
i think starstriker's point was more that you can't get a transport through unless the planet has no ships in orbit to defend it. still, the cost to create ships that can exit atmosphere and travel in hyperspace has to be far greater than the cost for a conventional jet fighter. ergo, defeating the ships in orbit doesn't necessarily mean you've achived air superiority. and orbital bombardment is only an invasion tactic in GC2. plus it seems like surface defenses should exist - gun turrets, SAM batteries, nukes. and as much as ships in orbit can bombard them from a safer distance before decent into the atmosphere, he pointed it out himself: planets are very big (and they're bound to miss many targets).
i agree with his points to an extent. however the sheer number of troops doesn't necessarily have to be greater than the number of troops on the planet (since there's no distinction in the game between troops and civilians). perhaps defense doesn't deserve the bonus, but niether does offense. yes, defenders have to defend the whole planet. but the attackers have to get out of the transport for starters, which takes time when there are billions of you in there. and once they do, big deal, they've managed to invade a square mile.
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it's okay... i actually liked the structure of the invasions in MoO3 (yes, 3) better. they were often battles of attrition that could stretch over the course of several turns. i mean, taking over a whole planet in a week does seem rather far fetched. they were horrible to look at, but at least they kinda made sense to me.
but a change on the scale of differentiating between troops and civilians (who can become milita), exactly how a battle is being fought, etc. -- these are changes for another game. i wouldn't even mind keeping the current bonus attackers get; i just wish there was more (useful) nuance in defending your planets, both against ships attacks and invasions.