I just got this game about a week ago and while I enjoy it alot I also suck horribly at it. Every match I've played usually end with me getting extorted and slautered by one race or another. I always seem to fall behind in everying and i cant keep up with the ai unless I go all-out in military prod or research, even if I control an equal or greater number of good planets than they do. So to get to the point, how do I keep from getting my ass kicked?