Hi there.
I was looking for an answer in my MP 'quest', and i just fell on this thread. I took sometime to read it all, carefully, and i think that some people have the MP idea wrong.
Let me first clarify that this is a TURN BASED game, and thus, people who are bored with slow paced games would really play this game anyway

However, to back up the MP idea, i will call uppon another REALLY favorite title (which i happen to play since its very first version). I'm talking about Championship Manager (now called Football Manager).
Have you ever played FM in MP mode? Well, let me give you some insight...
1. You may wait for your opponent (MP) to continue the game for ages!!!
2. When your games and his don't play at the same time you might wait like FOREVER!
3. When you just NEED to find that new unknown star quality player, human opponent might as well go have some coffees!
I can describe you like a billion situations where the other player just sits there and 'enjoys his team' waiting for you. Still, do you know how many people play CM in MP mode?! Every single one who can have an opponent on over a LAN!
If you want action, then go play some action game. GalCiv is something between MOO and Civ, and BOTH of these games had successfull multiplayer sessions (Hundreds of hours), and in both games, MP SUCKED!!! Even in CM MP mode SUCKS due to poor design over the matter.
Regarding the pole...
If Stardocks target is keeping the same amount of customers (repaying for Expansion), then thats fine. But if they wonna multiply their customers then i think MP should be the very next thing to be planed amongst others.
Comments are most welcomed
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