I'm a new player, my roommate has this game and has been letting me try it after he explained the gameplay. I was a fan of MoO and I use to play games similar to it for fun years ago. I decided to give this game a try and I love it but it's really lacking in some areas. I've only played 2 complete games(small galaxies, low difficultly) so far and I've been trying to start a game where I would win through either influence or tech but it seems impossible to play a peaceful race in this game. The last two games which were on lower difficulties I ended up winning through military might because either war got declared on me or i got dragged in to a war even though I told the altarans I didn't want to help.
I've restarted this 3rd attempted about 8-9 times in hopes of a peaceful game where I trade and maybe win through influence or tech.I usually play for about 100 turns before either all or most of the AI are demanding money and tech every other turn. I tried building a strong military making me a target with teeth but the AI never seems deterred by such a defensive build up. I give money to try and build my relationship and it seems to work for a time but it I have civilizations that I paid off last turn just declare war on me. I put the races on random so it's not a question of picking the wrong races for the most part all of them are warmongering.
I'm currently playing the Terran Alliance and difficultly is set to normal and I try to play a good alignment. I play in a large galaxy with 3 random opponents and my military is usually the 2nd or 3rd biggest despite that I frequently get declared war on even after paying them not kill me. I'm thinking that there is some basic strategy I'm failing to understand and implement.
I hope I can get some tips for this because I like the game but I'm not going to buy it myself until I'm convinced that there isn't a serious flaw in the game mechanics that will make my enjoyment short lived. I remember how disappointed I was after I bought MoO 3, I don't want to waste my time and money on a another bad game of this type.