Elfkura

Elfkura

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Yeah, I'm figuring out that too.... But Rob's a bit different. When I tell him I'm thirsty, he usually just walks over to the fridge and asks me what drink I want.... If I'm hungry....he lists this "hotdogs? salad? what's you in the mood for? " He's really very thoughtful, but I guess there are just a few areas both of us just needs to sit down and really talk about it.....go somewhere dese

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ohhh sun is what I need... feline... I've only been voicing my opinions. He's never told me what he felt....or anything, I don't know.... I wish I knew what was on his mind... hmm.. maybe this is a communication problem.

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JavaBrain, I understand your point of view perfectly, and I hold the same views too, to an extent (so it's not quite possible to get mad at you). I'm his first girlfriend (and he's my first boyfriend), so I'm willing to help him learn, just as I'm learning. First ones seems to have more trouble than the rest, as after experience, people learn. Yes, I understand that parents are protective and posessive. Mine are too as sometimes I find myself battling for my own time a

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He's trying hard to though. It's not as if he isn't even trying to do something. He sheds tears. He's cried. I know he has. He tries so hard, that's why I don't push hard. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, but the both of us just stumbled and fell, needing a bit of rest.... Maybe after a while, when we've finally pull through all the other little problems we have, then we can pull back together. Until then, there really is only hope.... and understanding.

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He did respond. He asked me what I would do in his situation. I told him. I said I would compromise with my parents. If I ask for time now, I return it sometime later. He said he'll use the spring break to spend quality time with me....I said I wanted the entire spring break. He said that wasn't possible. He -had- to go home. His excuse was he wasn't home very much the past two years..... I relented. I settled for Spring Break. I settled for a compromise that wasn't mine in the first pl

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Doreen, Up till this point, I really don't care anymore. I've talked it over with Rob, he claims there's nothing he can do. They're his parents.... "Yes, and I'm your girlfriend, if that means anything to you" You know, I don't demand much. Just one meal, one little vacation time with my boyfriend. His parents can have him the rest of the time. That's all I ask. Can anyone honestly tell me that's too much to ask? The last time I had some quality time with my boyfriend

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This is a dorm. We're not allowed to cook in our rooms. And as for my boyfriend's mom? Blah. If I can seen or hear less of his family, the better off I am. No one beats my mom is cooking. Rob's mom may cook nice, but she needs to learn to have a bit of variety. I'm cold...I'm hungry.

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Ahh, my boyfriend left for home almost an hour ago... He failed to mention the fact that he won't be having lunch with me today before he left because his him wants him home by 1 to have lunch... Sometimes, I understand that family is important, but one meal...... I don't know. I think it really would have meant more to me than it would to them. I'm kinda ticked off by that..... I so want to rant, but I've exhausted every place I know to rant my heart out.... I wish... I really

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No need to feel outnumbered. I'm still not very sure where men got the idea that girls like tough, bit muscled men..... Personally, I rather enjoy the cuddling soft side of guys mostly. I guess it's just my personality.

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Everyone's got an object in which they hold dear. I do too, from the age of six or seven. My blanket still lies in my closet. I've had it for about 12 - 13 years now. They say the older an object, the more meaning it has towards you

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And if you have questions, it's easier if you just ask it on the msgboard. That way, when someone knows he or she can help you, he or she will. Asking to be added to an aim just doesn't fly here... because of a few reasons.

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