I don't date. It's not that I don't have any free time or have Puritan parents, I just think the entire chase is a bit silly. Plus, I hate parties, dances, and most anything involving social interaction with people I do not like. I find it better that way, personally: more time, energy, and money for my projects. So I would have to say that I am a surprisingly lifelike Yor.
Speaking from much experience, keep going that way.
The chase is silly, and it will (probably) only lead to heartbreak, sorrow and poverty.
Stay single, and to your own devices. Because (in these days) once you attach to the opposite sex - you are doomed. The other side is treacherous, to the extreme.
And really... hear me!!! - I speak from MUCH experience!
Sorry if I turned the thread from the frivolous. But once you find that 'certain someone', and the two of you make babies, she will (might, probably will) find another 'certain someone' that makes your dream into a nightmare because of something you lack - or because you simply responded the wrong way to something she said.
She will want 'something more', or 'different', for whatever reason. Then you will be out on your own and struggling to make rent and food and utilities and... child support - which never goes away even when your children are out on their own. You will be hounded and prosecuted until your dying day.
The current divorce rate is at 50% or higher. So, what are your chances of a successful marriage?
Stay single as long as you can, and do what you can for this world.